
My firstborn turned seven on October 26th. What a baptism by fire he gave us. There really wasn't anything easy about Gabe in the beginning. From his conception, to his delivery, to his projectile-vomiting with severe acid reflux
and severe colic, to his congenital glaucoma. We are still amazed we had more children.
Here's a list, not all-inclusive of course, summarizing Gabe's good luck.
(One week old; don't be fooled by his cuteness)
1.
LUCKY that he was ONE TERRIBLE BABY. Gabe was such a fussy and needy baby that I spent hours holding him each day. I remember looking at my red-faced little monster one day and thinking, "What is wrong with him? Should I look at his eyes to see if he's sick, sort of like feeling if a dog's nose is wet?" And then I noticed a slight cloudiness in one eye. "Probably just the light," I thought. But it wasn't, because the cloudiness was there the next day. Even though I could only see the cloudiness in certain lights, it nagged at me. So I put it on the list of things to ask about at his 2 month check-up.
(February 2, 2002 after first surgeries)The moral of the story? Because Gabe was
so awful, I noticed his eyes. Because we caught and treated his congenital glaucoma early, Gabe has minimal vision impairment.
Unbelievably lucky boy.
(Fall 2006)2.
LUCKY that he has TWO DOGS. And he's already raised puppies. Isn't that every boy's constitutional right?
(Winter 2005)
(Summer 2008; the haze is uncharacteristic for Tahoe, but California was afire)
(Chumps, August 2008)
(Pete, October 2008; really need to get all boys in one picture)
3.
LUCKY that he has THREE BROTHERS. Ready-made playmates and best friends, not to mention future serfs.
(Spring 2007)
(Summer 2008)4.
LUCKY that he lives close to FOUR GRANDPARENTS. Who
all came to his birthday party. Who do sleepovers, take him fishing, visit his school and his ward, take him camping, take him to movies, and even do boring things like shop at Costco with him.
(October 26, 2008)5.
LUCKY that his favorite birthday present has nearly FIVE HUNDRED PIECES. And his Dad was patient enough to put it all together. And his Mom has her buyer's remorse under control.
(Summer 2003)
(Summer 2007)
(October 26, 2008)
6.
LUCKY that cars have 6 CYCLINDERS. Because he
LOVES cars. His first sentence was "Look at
that car!" He recognized more car insignias at the age of 3 than most adults. He loves the way they sound, the way tires smell, and the way they go fast and crash. He's obsessed with Tony Stewart. And Lightning McQueen. He claps at the beginning of NASCAR races.

7.
LUCKY that he has had SEVEN BIRTHDAY CAKES, and only one that he didn't like (before we discovered he's a chocolate only guy).
(Summer 2008)
Happy 7th Birthday to my sweet, brave, spiritual, funny, lucky Gabe.

Thanks for making me a mom.